Thursday, 5 April 2012

She mixes with her relative, uncovers her face in front of him and talks to him on the phone


I am teaching in a circle (for memorising Quran). I have a student who is 20 years old. She has a relationship with a non-mahram relative (who was described as religious). When the two families meet she uncovers her face in front of him without khilwa (private meeting), as there are children present. When she was advised to stop doing this she said he is a relative and it is permissible. She also talks to him on the telephone. She does not know that I know about this matter, what shall I do? How shall I face her? I fear her stubbornness and I fear she leaves the circle that she badly needs.

Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:

Undoubtedly this sister is in need of advice and guidance, and the one who is said to be a righteous man who is one of her relatives needs the same. There is no doubt that by means of this relationship they are opening a door to fitnah and a path to sin and transgression, and no one can be certain of what the consequences of that will be, and no one knows where it will end up.

It was narrated from al-Nawwaas ibn Sam’aan al-Ansaari (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah has told the parable of a straight path, on both sides of which are two walls, in which there are open doors, and over the doors are curtains, and at the gate of the path there is a caller who says: ‘O people, enter the path all together and do not go depart from it. And there is a caller who calls from further in; when a person wants to open any of those doors, he says: Woe to you, do not open it! for if you open it you will enter it.

The path is Islam and the walls are the sacred limits of Allaah, and the open doors are the things forbidden by Allaah. The caller at the beginning of the path is the Book of Allaah and the caller at the top of the path is the conscience in the heart of every Muslim.”

Narrated by Imam Ahmad (17182) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Zilaal al-Jannah (19).

The word “woe to you” is a warning against doing that; it is a word that expresses mercy and concern and it is said to anyone who falls into a bad situation that he does not deserve.

“Do not open it, for if you open it you will enter it” means you will enter the door and fall into that which Allaah has forbidden.

Fayd al-Qadeer (4/334).

Ibn Rajab (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

The one who in this world departs from the straight path and opens the doors to haraam things that are in the walls of the path, right and left, and enters them, whether he entered the haraam things because of whims and desires or confusion, will be seized by the hooks that are on that path, right and left, according to whatever doors to haraam things he opened in this world, and some of them will fall into the Fire, and some will be torn by the hooks then saved.

Sharh Hadeeth Mathal al-Islam, p. 44.

The relationship mentioned in the question dictates two things:

1 – That the relative should be concerned about his relatives’ well being and be more concerned about protecting them than anyone else. So he should not help his relative to open doors to haraam or enter them, whether that is motivated by whims and desires or confusion, rather his concern for his relative should be firstly because he is a Muslim and then because he is a relative.

2 – Many people are careless about mixing between relatives, and there are not many who do not overstep the limit and refrain from slipping into areas of fitnah. Therefore Islam is strict in closing the door to fitnah caused by relatives with whom people tend to feel too relaxed more than others, to such a point that the relative is likened to death!

It was narrated from ‘Utbah ibn ‘Aamir that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Beware of entering upon women.” An Ansaari man said: O Messenger of Allaah, what about the in-law? He said: “The in-law is death.”  Narrated by al-Bukhaari (4934) and Muslim (2172).

For the commentary of Imam al-Nawawi on this hadeeth, please see the answer to question no. 12837.

In the answer referred to there is also a fatwa from Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) about the permissibility of a woman sitting with her relatives, subject to two conditions:

1 – That her hijab should be complete, including the face and hands.

2 – That there should be nothing dubious.

Both conditions are lacking in this case. She sits with her relatives with her face uncovered, and undoubtedly her sitting with him is dubious. Among the effects of that sitting together are the conversations that have taken place between them, which are also haraam. We have quoted the fatwas of the scholars about this issue in the answers to questions no. 26890 and 10221.

Secondly:

You have to be subtle in calling her, advising her and reminding her, and you must use wisdom and beautiful exhortation. Kindness in offering advice is more likely to bring a response and moving exhortation is more likely to affect the heart.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Invite (mankind, O Muhammad صلىالله عليه وسلم) to the way of your Lord (i.e. Islam) with wisdom (i.e. with the Divine Revelation and the Qur’aan) and fair preaching, and argue with them in a way that is better. Truly, your Lord knows best who has gone astray from His path, and He is the Best Aware of those who are guided”

[al-Nahl 16:125]

“Go, both of you, to Fir‘awn (Pharaoh), verily, he has transgressed (all bounds in disbelief and disobedience and behaved as an arrogant and as a tyrant).

44. “And speak to him mildly, perhaps he may accept admonition or fear (Allaah)”

[Ta-Ha 20:43-44].

See also the answers to questions no. 60244 and 13261.

If you are afraid that she will be put her off if you are blunt with her, or you think that she will be stubborn, then you can give her hints concerning what you want to tell her, and talk to her indirectly, such as quoting some ahaadeeth in front of her that warn against the fitnah of non-mahram men, especially relatives, or giving her some tapes and essays and pamphlets that speak about that, and about the danger that taking such matters lightly poses to the religious commitment and chastity of a woman, and speak to her in general terms, as if you do not know anything about her situation.

Then urge her to convey this message to other Muslim women, when she is calling them to Allaah, and spreading that etiquette among Muslim women, and that it is not sufficient for a girl to protect herself against immorality or the things that lead to it such as haraam mixing and relationships that are Islamically unacceptable, rather she must also call others to Allaah and enjoin what is good and forbid what is evil, as much as she is able to.

Thirdly:

If this indirect approach does not succeed, then you can gently confront her with what she is doing, as she is a grown up and will understand what you say. She is also a student in a Qur'aan circle and her actions do not reflect on her only but also on the place where she is learning. Tell her that you are telling her this because you love her and you wish her well, and you are concerned about her, and it is not the matter of trying to control another person’s actions, for many people are put off from the truth for no other reason than that they think the person who is advising them is trying to set himself up as his keeper.

You can focus on a number of things when you advise her:

1.     Explain to her the status of modesty in Islam, and how the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and the womenfolk of the Sahaabah attained a high degree with regard to this virtue.

2.     Point out to her that she is falling into something that is forbidden in sharee’ah, such as uncovering the face in front of a non-mahram man, sitting in a mixed gathering and talking to him on the pone. We have referred above to numerous fatwas from the scholars on these matters.

In the answers to questions no. 11774 and 21536 we have explained the ruling on covering the face and hands.

3.     Remind her of the true stories of those who fell victim to mixing and talking and corresponding with non-mahrams, as such stories are innumerable.

See also the answer to question no. 20784.

In the answer to question no. 1200 we have explained the ruling on mixing in detail, and its bad effects.

4.     Get in touch with her mother or visit her to advise her and remind her of the wrong things that are being done in their house, and the effect that this will have on them, and on their daughter in particular.

And Allaah knows best.

Should the one who falls into bid’ah (innovation) be denounced?


Making du’a loudly in a group and raising hands up while supplicating after the obligatory prayers is an innovation.
Question:
Do I have to denounce such innovations of the people in the masjid where I pray including the imam? What is the best way to do this? Knowing that some of them are really stubborn and do not accept any correction easily, there is no strength and no power except with Allah, and they may not accept it at all. Please guide me sheikh what shall I do? May Allah reward you.

Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:

Enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil is one of the greatest symbols of Islam, and it is essential to the well being of the ummah.

It says in al-Mawsoo’ah al-Fiqhiyyah (6/248):

The imams are unanimously agreed that it is prescribed in sharee’ah to enjoin what is good and forbid what is evil. Imam al-Nawawi and Ibn Hazm narrated that there is consensus on its being obligatory. The verses of the Qur’aan, the ahaadeeth of the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and the consensus of the Muslims all state that it is part of the naseehah (sincere advice) that is the religion. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Let there arise out of you a group of people inviting to all that is good (Islam), enjoining Al-Ma‘roof (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do) and forbidding Al-Munkar (polytheism and disbelief and all that Islam has forbidden). And it is they who are the successful”

[Aal ‘Imraan 3:104].

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever among you sees an evil action, then let him change it with his hand [by taking action]; if he cannot, then with his tongue [by speaking out]; and if he cannot, then with his heart – and that is the weakest of faith.”

Imam al-Ghazaali said: Enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil is the basis of the faith and the foundation of the message of the Messengers. If it is neglected, the teachings of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) will be overlooked and religious teachings will be forgotten, and chaos will become widespread and the people will be doomed.

But after that they differed concerning the rulings thereon: is it an individual obligation (fard ‘ayn) or a communal obligation (fard kifaayah) or naafil (supererogatory action)? Or does it come under the same ruling as the thing that is enjoined or forbidden, or does it come under the principle of bringing benefits and warding off harm?

There are four points of view.

End quote.

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

Enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil is obligatory, but it is a communal obligation: if sufficient people undertake it then it is waived from the rest, but if there is no specific person who is doing it, then enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil becomes an individual obligation for everyone, as is the case with all other communal obligations. If there is no one who does it, then it becomes obligatory for everyone. Based on that, if you pass by some people who are doing evil and you do not find anyone who tells them not to do it, then it becomes obligatory for you to tell them.

Al-Liqa’ al-Shahri (no. 35).

Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked:

What is the ruling on one who fails to enjoin what is good and forbid what is evil when he is able to do that?

He replied:

The ruling is that he is disobeying Allaah and His Messenger, and he is weak in faith, and he is in grave danger of diseases of the heart and their consequences in this world and in the Hereafter, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Those among the Children of Israel who disbelieved were cursed by the tongue of Dawood (David) and ‘Eesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary). That was because they disobeyed (Allaah and the Messengers) and were ever transgressing beyond bounds.

79. They used not to forbid one another from Al-Munkar (wrong, evildoing, sins, polytheism, disbelief) which they committed. Vile indeed was what they used to do”

[al-Maa'idah 5:78-79]

And it is narrated in a saheeh report that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever among you sees an evil action, then let him change it with his hand [by taking action]; if he cannot, then with his tongue [by speaking out]; and if he cannot, then with his heart – and that is the weakest of faith.”

And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: If the people see an evil action and do not change it, soon Allaah will cause His punishment to encompass them all.” Narrated by Imam Ahmad with a saheeh isnaad from Abu Bakr al-Siddeeq (may Allaah be pleased with him). There are many ahaadeeth on this topic; we ask Allaah to enable all the Muslims to undertake this great duty in the manner which pleases Him.

Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn Baaz (6/504).

Secondly:

The scholars have sought to set out guidelines and limits concerning this matter, so as to avoid any negative consequences which may occur as the result of not understanding this serious issue correctly.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) summed up some of these guidelines and etiquettes in a comprehensive comment in which he said:

The one who enjoins what is good and forbids what is evil must understand what he is enjoining and what he is forbidding; he must be gentle when enjoining and gentle when forbidding; he should be forbearing when enjoining and forbearing when forbidding. So he should understand before he enjoins what is good and forbids what is evil; being gentle when enjoining is most likely to achieve the desired outcomes; and forbearance after enjoining will enable him to be patient in bearing the reaction of the one whom he enjoins or forbids, because the reaction will often be offensive and rude. Hence Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “enjoin (on people) Al‑Ma‘roof  (Islamic Monotheism and all that is good), and forbid (people) from Al‑Munkar (i.e. disbelief in the Oneness of Allaah, polytheism of all kinds and all that is evil and bad), and bear with patience whatever befalls you” [Luqmaan 31:17].

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (15/167).

It was also narrated that Sufyaan al-Thawri (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

No one should enjoin what is good and forbid what is evil except the one who has three characteristics: hi is gentle when enjoining and gentle when forbidding; just when enjoining and just when forbidding; and he has knowledge of what he is enjoining and what he is forbidding.

Jaami’ al-‘Uloom wa’l-Hukam (p. 325).

So the scholar is the one who should occupy himself with enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil, because he is the one who explains to him the shar’i rulings with evidence, and he is able to convince those whom he addresses, and explain the proof to them. As for the ordinary Muslims, they are also obliged to enjoin what is obviously good, such as prayer, fasting, paying zakaah and so on, and to forbid what is obviously evil, such as immorality, tabarruj (wanton display), theft and so on.  

But if the ordinary Muslim comes across some evils or innovations which are subtle and he is uncertain about their rulings, or there may be differences of opinion concerning them among the scholars, in that case it is not permissible for him to start denouncing them by himself, rather he should convey to the people the fatwas of scholars which he has studied and which explain the ruling on this issue only, without resorting to violence or stirring up fitnah and division, and Allaah will reward him greatly.

The scholars of the Standing Committee said:

Denouncing innovation and myth is obligatory for the knowledge among Ahl al-Sunnah wa’l-Jamaa’ah.

Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (2/345).

Thirdly:

All you have to do is to study these fatwas that are published on our website in the answers to questions no. 11543, 21976 and 26279, then convey that to the people in a kind and gentle manner. If they respond to you, then praise be to Allaah, and if they do not respond, then you do not have to do any more than that concerning them, but the specialist scholars are still obliged to debate and try to convince them.

See also the answer to question no. 87779.

I ask Allaah to guide you and to bless you abundantly.

And Allaah knows best.

They are denouncing him for applying the Sunnah and saying that it divides the Muslims


The imam of our mosque said in a Friday khutbah that we should not be strict in following the Sunnah of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) because the Sunnah divides Muslims and we must be united. He quoted as evidence the fact that a Bedouin came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allaah, tell me of an action which, if I do it, I will enter Paradise. He said: Worship Allaah and do not associate anything with Him, establish the prescribed prayers, pay the obligatory zakaah and fast Ramadaan.” He said: By the One in Whose hand is my soul, I shall never do anything more or less than that. When he turned to leave, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever would like to look upon a man who is one of the people of Paradise, let him look upon this man.”
Is this correct? Please note that we are followers of the Sunnah, and he calls the one who follows the Sunnah an extremist.
Please advise us, may Allaah bless you.

Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:

Your imam has said something that is wrong and false. What he should have done was fear Allaah his Lord and refrain from speaking words that involved sin.

The Prophetic Sunnah is the guidance of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and his words and deeds. How can the Sunnah be dividing the Muslims?! What can unite them if the Sunnah divides them?

If this imam was sincere he would have said that the Sunnah is what unites people, and brings them together.

Imam Abu’l-Muzaffar al-Sam’aani (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: The reason why ahl al-hadeeth were united is that they learned their religion from the Qur'aan and Sunnah and sound reports, which united them and brought them together, whereas the followers of innovation learned their religion by means of reasoning, which divided them and made them differ. Al-Intisaar li Ahl al-Hadeeth (p. 47),

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

The cause of unity and harmony is accepting the religion as a whole and following all of it, which is worshipping Allaah alone with no partner or associate, as He enjoined, both inwardly and outwardly. The cause of division is failing to do some of that which is enjoined upon a person, and transgression among different groups.

The result of unity is mercy from Allaah, His pleasure and blessings, happiness in this world and in the Hereafter and brightness of the face, whereas the result of division is the punishment and curse of Allaah, darkness of the face and the disavowal of the Messenger.

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (1/17).

He (may Allaah have mercy on him) also said:

Accepting sound reports from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) brings harmony, as was narrated from Maalik (may Allaah have mercy on him) who said: When knowledge decreases harshness will prevail and when there is little knowledge of hadeeth then whims and desires will prevail.

Dar’ al-Ta’aarud (1/149)

How can the follower of the Sunnah be called an extremist when the Muslim is enjoined to follow it and take the guidance of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) as his example? What would this imam say about the deeds of the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them) when they followed the Sunnah of their Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) so closely? What would he say about this event?

It was narrated that Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: Whilst the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was leading his companions in prayer, he took off his sandals and placed them to his left. When the people saw that, they took off their sandals too. When the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) finished the prayer he said: What made you take off your sandals? They said: We saw you take off your sandals so we took ours off too. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Jibreel (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) came to me and told me that there was some dirt on them. and he said: When one of you comes to the mosque, let him look and if he sees any dirt (impurity) on his shoes, let him wipe it off and pray in them.”

Narrated by Abu Dawood (650); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani.

These companions of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) took off their shoes whilst praying simply because they saw their Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) take off his shoes. So what if it was a Sunnah narrated from him or it was something that he taught?

Secondly:

Criticizing the followers of the Sunnah of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and accusing them of being extremists or fanatics is offensive and is slander. Allaah has issued a warning to the one who does that, let alone the fact that it is an imitation of the mushrikeen who did this before him.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And those who annoy believing men and women undeservedly, they bear (on themselves) the crime of slander and plain sin”

[al-Ahzaab 33:58]

“Verily, (during the worldly life) those who committed crimes used to laugh at those who believed.

30. And, whenever they passed by them, used to wink one to another (in mockery).

31. And when they returned to their own people, they would return jesting;

32. And when they saw them, they said: ‘Verily, these have indeed gone astray’”

[al-Mutaffifeen 83:29-32]

Shaykh al-‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

“And when they saw them” means, when the sinners saw the believers, they said:

“Verily, these have indeed gone astray” i.e., gone astray from the right path, and they are backward and narrow-minded and extreme, and other such labels. Those people have their successors in our own times. Some people say of good people that they are regressive and backward, and they say of the one who is religiously committed that he is extremist and narrow-minded. Even worse than all of that, they said of the Messengers that they were sorcerers or madmen. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Likewise, no Messenger came to those before them but they said: ‘A sorcerer or a madman!’” [al-Dhaariyaat 51:52]. The heirs of the Messengers, who are the scholars and those who are religiously committed encounter the same from the enemies of the Messengers as the Messengers encountered, of offensive labels and mockery, and so on. Among these accusations that the followers of innovation and those who deny the attributes of Allaah gave to those of the early generation who affirmed His attributes was that they thought of Allaah as a physical being, and other such negative accusations which put people off from the right way.

Liqaa’aat al-Baab il-Maftooh (no. 30).

Thirdly:

The kind of strictness in religious adherence which is to be criticized is that which regards mustahabb things as obligatory and makrooh things as haraam. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) warned against going to extremes in religion, and he also warned against undue strictness. Extremism and strictness does not mean applying the Sunnah, rather it means changing its rulings and being too strict with regard to commands and prohibitions when that is not the case.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said – commenting on the hadeeth, “Do not be too strict with yourselves, for some people were strict on themselves and Allaah was strict on them, and we see the remnants of that in their hermitages and monasteries.” - :

Here the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade being strict in religion by going beyond what is prescribed. Strictness may sometimes means taking what is not obligatory or mustahabb and making it obligatory or mustahabb with regard to acts of worship, and sometimes it may mean taking something that is not haraam or makrooh and making it haraam or makrooh with regard to things that are good. The reason for that is that Allaah was very strict on those among the Christians who were too strict on themselves, until it ended up in the innovation of monasticism.

Thus it may be noted that the Prophet disliked such things that the Christians did, such as innovation of monasticism, even though many devoted Muslims have fallen into the same trap on the basis of their interpretation for which they may be excused, or they fell into this trap with no justification.

It may also be noted that being too strict with oneself in the beginning may lead to further strictness imposed by Allaah, either through laws or through His decree. As for laws, this is what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) feared during his own time, of an increase in obligations or prohibitions such as that which he feared when they gathered to pay Taraweeh with him, and when they asked about things that had not been forbidden, and such as the fact that when a person vows to do an act of worship it becomes obligatory for him to do it even though he is forbidden to make vows, and similarly expiations which become obligatory for specific reasons.

As for the divine decree, we have often seen and heard that those who go to extremes in some issues, will be caused to suffer in ways that lead to things becoming more strict on him with regard to what is obligatory and what is haraam, such as many of those who are affected with waswaas about purification. When they do more than is prescribed, they will end up suffering from things that lead to something that may cause more hardship and harm to them.

Iqtida’ al-Siraat al-Mustaqeem (103, 104).

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said, commenting on the hadeeth of the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “O people, beware of going to extremes in religious matters for those who came before you were doomed because of going to extremes in religious matters.”  Narrated by al-Nasaa’i (3059) and Ibn Maajah (3029); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Nasaa'i:

In this hadeeth the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) warned his ummah against going to extremes and proved that going to extremes is a cause of doom, because it is contrary to sharee’ah, and because it led to the downfall of previous nations. So it may be understood from this that going to extremes is haraam for two reasons:

1 –He (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) warned against it, and a warning is a prohibition and more.

2 –It is the cause of nations’ downfall as those who came before us were destroyed, and whatever is the cause of doom is haraam.



With regard to worship, people may go to one of two extremes or be moderate. Some are negligent, some exaggerate and some are moderate.

The proper way (as prescribed by Islam) is the middle way between going to extremes and being negligent. Being moderate and not inclining towards either extreme is what is required. It is not permissible to exaggerate and go to extremes in religious matters, or to be careless and not pay any heed. Rather we should tread a middle path between both.

Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (9/367, 368).

Fourthly:

The hadeeth which your imam quoted as evidence was narrated by al-Bukhaari (1333) and Muslim (14), and there is no dispute as to its soundness, but he has misunderstood it. If he had studied its narrations and what the scholars said, he would not have quoted it as evidence in this manner. According to a report narrated by al-Bukhaari, it says, “and taught him the laws of Islam.” This wording includes all other obligatory duties, and things that are recommended.

Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

The words “he was asking about Islam” mean, about the laws of Islam. It may be understood that he asked about the realties of Islam. He did not mention the Shahaadah to him because he knew that he already knew it, or he knew that he was asking about practical laws, or he mentioned it but the narrator did not transmit it because it is so well known. And he did not mention Hajj either because it had not been enjoined yet or because the narrator had shortened the report. This second view is supported by the report narrated by the compiler – i.e., al-Bukhaari – concerning fasting via Ismaa’eel ibn Ja’far from Abu Suhayl in this hadeeth. He said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told him of the laws of Islam, and he included all obligatory and recommended deeds in that.

“And the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) mentioned zakaah” – in the report of Ismaa’eel ibn Ja’far it says: He told me of what Allaah had enjoined upon me of zakaah. He said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told him of the laws of Islam. This report shows that there were things in the story that were told in brief form, such as explaining the minimum thresholds for paying zakaah, which are not explained in these two reports, and neither are the names of the prayers. It seems that the reason for that is that these things were well known among them, or that the purpose of the story was to show that the one who adheres to the obligatory duties will be saved even if he does not do naafil actions.

With regard to him succeeding when he does not fall short in that, this is clear, but how can he succeed if he does not add anything to it?  Al-Nawawi answered by saying that the hadeeth confirms that he will succeed because he has done what he is required to do, and there is nothing to suggest that if he does more than that he will not be successful, because if he succeeds by doing what is obligatory, he is more likely to succeed if he does recommended actions as well as obligatory deeds.

Fath al-Baari (1/108)

We hope that the imam will think about the phrase “and he taught him the laws of Islam”, and we hope that he will think about the last words that we have quoted from al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar, in which he approved of the words of Imam al-Nawawi, that success is more likely for the one who does the obligatory duties and adds to them the recommended deeds.

Fifthly:

We advise you to adhere to the commands of Allaah, may He be exalted, and His Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and we also advise you to adhere to the Sunnah and kept doing mustahabb deeds, without going to extremes or exaggerating, and teach that to people with wisdom and good methods. It is not permissible for you to put people off by being too strict in matters that are broad in scope, or by making mustahabb things obligatory, or by going to extremes in denouncing people, especially the elite such as the imam of the mosque or the mufti or one who holds a similar status in people’s eyes. Listen to this comprehensive advice from a great scholar:

Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (may Allaah preserve him) said:

You must adhere to the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and stick to it, and not pay any attention to the criticism of those who criticize you or blame you for that. If your parents criticize you for adhering to the Sunnah and they want you to be heedless about that, then do not obey them with regard to that, especially if these sunnahs are obligatory duties that must be adhered to, and they are not just mustahabb, so long as it does not reach the level of being exaggeration. But if it means that you are exaggerating, then that is not appropriate, rather you should be balanced and moderate in applying the Sunnah and acting upon it, without going to extremes or exaggerating, and without being careless or heedless. This is what you should do. Whatever the case, you will be rewarded – in sha Allaah – and you must adhere to the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and try to convince those who are criticizing you about that, especially your parents. You should encourage them to follow the Sunnah and explain to them the reward and goodness that there is in that. Perhaps they will drop these objections, and maybe this deed will cause them to also adhere to the Sunnah, and you will be the one who called them to Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted. Undoubtedly the one who wants to call people to Allaah is obliged to begin with his relatives and the closest of people to him, and one’s parents are among the closest of people to a person.

Whatever the case, if your adherence to the Sunnah does not go to extremes of exaggeration, then it is something praiseworthy, and you must continue in it, and call your parents and others to it. And Allaah knows best.

Al-Muntaqa min Fataawa al-Shaykh al-Fawzaan (2/301, 302)

Finally: Just as it is blameworthy exaggeration to make mustahabb things like obligatory deeds or makrooh things like haraam deeds, or to oblige ourselves to do things that Allaah has not made obligatory upon us, it is also ignorance of the basic principles of sharee’ah to ignore the important general principle which is that harmony and love among Muslims are essential, and we must be united in adhering to Islam and protect the honour of the Muslim from criticism and shame, let alone aggression and harm. It is ignorance to neglect all of that just because someone adheres to something that is mustahabb but others do not see it as such, or to something that he does not adhere to, and respond by transgressing against the Muslim’s honour or rights because he neglects something that others adhere to. It is by such means that the accursed enemy attains his goal among the believers, and it is even worse when it happens in a foreign land where others see us as representatives of Islam.

Imam Muslim narrated in his Saheeh (2812) that Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “The Shaytaan has despaired of being worshipped in the Arabian Peninsula, but he will sow seeds of discord among them.”

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

As for the description of prayer, one of its issues is the Basmalah (saying Bismillaah…), and the people differ as to whether it is a verse of the Qur'aan or not, and whether it is to be recited or not. Both sides have written books that show a great deal of ignorance and wrongdoing, even though the issues is not that serious. Adhering blindly to one’s view in these and similar matters is one of the signs of division and dissent which is forbidden for us. The reason for discussing these controversial minor issues is to find out which view is more sound, as these issues are among the least serious controversial issues, but the shaytaan may play a role in creating divisions among Muslims because of these minor issues.  

Then he said: It is mustahabb for a man to try to reconcile people by refraining from these mustahabb deeds, because the interests served by reconciling people in Islam is greater than the interest served by doing such things. Similarly, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) decided not to change the structure of the Ka’bah, because leaving it as it was would reconcile people, and Ibn Mas’ood criticized ‘Uthmaan for offering prayers in full whilst travelling, but he still prayed behind him when he offered the prayer in full, and said: Dissent is evil.

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (22/405-407).

And Allaah knows best.

Should he join an Islamic party in a secular country?


We have a islamic Political party in our country. Their moto is to establish islam in the country through gaining legal rights to exercise power to the country. Being a countryman of such a country where almost no person is following islam and haraam things are becoming more common due to the lack of imaan of all other political and almost all civil persons of the country.In such situation is it farz to join in such a Islamic Political Party that is giving hope that if we join and support them, then islam could be stablished. Moreover, my family is forbidding me to join in such Islamic Politics but i am getting attracted by their Philosophy. Please Advise.

Praise be to Allaah.
Islam enjoins its followers to be united in following the truth and has warned them against being divided. It tells them that conflict and division after coming to know the truth is the way of those who are not Muslims and it is a guarantee of failure and loss of strength. This is what makes them an easy target for those who seek the downfall of Islam.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allaah (i.e. this Qur’aan), and be not divided among yourselves”

[Aal ‘Imraan 3:101]

Ibn Katheer (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

The words “and be not divided among yourselves” enjoin unity and forbid division. There are numerous ahaadeeth which forbid division and enjoin unity and harmony. For example in Saheeh Muslim it is narrated from Suhayl ibn Abi Saalih from his father from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah likes three things for you and He dislikes three things for you. He likes you to worship Him (alone) and not associate anything with Him; to hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allaah, and be not divided among yourselves; and to be sincere to the one who Allaah has appointed over you. And He dislikes for you three things: gossip, asking too much and squandering wealth.” And they have been guaranteed protection against agreeing on errors, as is also mentioned in numerous ahaadeeth, but division and differences are feared for them. That indeed came to pass in this ummah, and they divided into seventy-three sects, of whom one will be saved and will enter Paradise and be saved from the torment of the Fire, and they are the ones who follow the path of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and his companions.

Tafseer Ibn Katheer (2/89/90).

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Let there arise out of you a group of people inviting to all that is good (Islam), enjoining Al-Ma‘roof (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do) and forbidding Al-Munkar (polytheism and disbelief and all that Islam has forbidden). And it is they who are the successful.

105. And be not as those who divided and differed among themselves after the clear proofs had come to them. It is they for whom there is an awful torment”

[Aal ‘Imraan 3:104, 105]

Secondly:

It is not permissible for a Muslim to join parties that go against Islam or are opposed to it, such as secular, nationalist or communist parties, because joining them implies approval of their misguidance and kufr, and is increasing their numbers.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And verily, this (i.e. Allaah’s Commandments mentioned in the above two Verses 151 and 152) is My straight path, so follow it, and follow not (other) paths, for they will separate you away from His path. This He has ordained for you that you may become Al‑Muttaqoon (the pious)”

[al-An’aam 6:153]

“Verily, those who divide their religion and break up into sects (all kinds of religious sects), you (O Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) have no concern in them in the least. Their affair is only with Allaah, Who then will tell them what they used to do”

[al-An’aam 6:159]

Shaykh ‘Abd al-Rahmaan al-Sa’di (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

Here Allaah is warning those who divide their religion, i.e., who cause division within it, each of them calling himself by a name that does not benefit him in his religious commitment, like the Jews, Christians and Magians, or that do not complete his faith, such as taking something from sharee’ah and making that his religion, and ignoring something of similar or greater importance, as is the case with the people of sects who follow innovations and misguidance and divide the ummah.

The verse indicates that Islam enjoins unity and harmony, and forbids division and dissent among the followers of the faith, and in all basic and minor issues.

And Allaah enjoins disavowing those who divide their religion, and says: “you (O Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) have no concern in them in the least” i.e., you are not of them and they are not of you, because they have gone against you and opposed you.

“Their affair is only with Allaah”, as they will return to Him and He will punish them for their actions: “Who then will tell them what they used to do”.

Tafseer al-Sa’di (p. 282).

Thirdly:

There is no reason why Muslims should not establish charitable organizations or organizations that aim to call people to Allaah or to do good works in general, so long as they do not follow blindly this organization or the opinions of its leaders in such a way that may cause division among the Muslims.

Fourthly:

It is not permissible for the Muslims to establish parties and organizations that are based on blindly following certain opinions or blindly following some leaders, because that involves falling into division that is forbidden to us.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

Leaders have no right to create factionalism among the people and stir up enmity and hatred, rather they should be like brothers, cooperating in righteousness and piety, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Help you one another in Al‑Birr and At‑Taqwa (virtue, righteousness and piety); but do not help one another in sin and transgression”

[al-Maa’idah 5:2]

No one should form a covenant with another person, agreeing to everything that he wants, taking as friends those who take him as a friend and taking as enemies those who take him as an enemy. Rather the one who does that is like Genghis Khan and his ilk, who regard those who agree with them as friends and those who disagree with them as enemies. Rather they and their followers should adopt the covenant of Allaah and His Messenger by obeying Allaah and His Messenger, doing what is enjoined by Allaah and His Messenger, and regarding as haraam that which has been forbidden by Allaah and His Messenger, and paying attention to the rights of leaders as enjoined by Allaah and His Messenger.

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (28/15, 16).

And he (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

Whoever swears allegiance to a person on the grounds that he will take as a friend the one who takes him as a friend and regard as an enemy the one who takes him as an enemy, is like the Tatars who are striving for the sake of the shaytaan. One who is like that is not among those who are striving for the sake of Allaah, may He be exalted and is not one of the Muslim ranks. It is not permissible for such a person to be one of the Muslim troops, rather he belongs to the troops of the shaytaan. He does well who says to his student: You must adhere to the covenant of Allaah by taking as a friend those who take Allaah and His Messenger as friends, and regarding as an enemy those who regarded Allaah and His Messenger as enemies. Cooperate in righteousness and piety and do not cooperate in sin and transgression. If truth lies with me then support the truth, and if I am following falsehood then do not support falsehood. Whoever adheres to this principle is one of those who are striving for the sake of Allaah, those who want submission to be all for Allaah and the word of Allaah to be uppermost.

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (28/20, 21)

Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

With regard to joining modern parties, this should not be done. Everyone should adhere to the Book of Allaah and the Sunnah of His Messenger, and cooperate in that sincerely. Thus they will be part of the “party of Allaah” of which Allaah says at the end of Soorat al-Mujaadilah (interpretation of the meaning): “Verily, it is the party of Allaah that will be the successful” [al-Mujaadilah 58:22], after mentioning their great attributes in the verse (interpretation of the meaning): “You (O Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) will not find any people who believe in Allaah and the Last Day, making friendship with those who oppose Allaah and His Messenger…”

Among their great attributes are those which Allah mentions in Soorat al-Dhaariyaat, where He says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Verily, the Muttaqoon (the pious. See V.2:2) will be in the midst of Gardens and Springs (in the Paradise),

16. Taking joy in the things which their Lord has given them. Verily, they were before this Muhsinoon (good‑doers. See V.2:112).

17. They used to sleep but little by night [invoking their Lord (Allaah) and praying, with fear and hope].

18. And in the hours before dawn, they were (found) asking (Allaah) for forgiveness.

19. And in their properties there was the right of the Saa’il (the beggar who asked) and the Mahroom (the poor who does not ask others)”

[al-Dhaariyaat 51:15-19]

These are the attributes of the “party of Allaah”, who do not follow anything but the Book of Allaah and the Sunnah; they promote that and follow the path of the early generation of this ummah, the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them) and those who followed them in truth.

They sincerely advise and call upon all parties and groups to adhere to the Qur’aan and Sunnah and to examine anything that differs from them; whatever is in accordance with both or one of them (the Qur’aan and Sunnah) is acceptable and true, and whatever goes against them must be shunned.

In that regard there is no difference between the Muslim Brotherhood (al-Ikhwaan al-Muslimeen), Ansaar al-Sunnah, al-Jama’iyyah al-Shar’iyyah, Jamaa’at al-Tableegh and other groups and parties that claim to be Islamic. Thus they have a shared purpose and aim and become one party which follows the path of Ahl al-Sunnah wa’l-Jamaa’ah, who are the party of Allaah and the supporters and promoters of His religion.

It is not permissible to follow blindly any group or party in matters in which it goes against sharee’ah.

Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn Baaz (7/177, 178).

Fifthly:

If a Muslim is living in a secular, kaafir state, and there is a party that is calling for Islam, or playing a role in establishing the religion among the Muslims, and is striving to protect their identity and beliefs, then it is not permissible for anyone to abandon it, rather it should be supported and helped as much as possible. If a Muslim cannot support it except by joining it, there is no reason why he should not do so, but it is essential to pay attention to what we have said about not being partisan or following blindly.

Shaykh Ibn Sa’di (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in his discussion of what we learn from the story of Shu’ayb in Soorat Hood (peace be upon them both):

… Allaah may defend the believers in many ways, some of which they may know and some they may not know at all. He may defend them by means of their tribe or their kaafir compatriots, as Allaah defended Shu’ayb from the stoning of his people by means of his clan. There is nothing wrong with striving to maintain these connections by means of which Islam and the Muslims may be defended, and in some cases that may be essential, because da’wah is required according to ability.

Based on this, if the Muslims help those who are under the rule of the kuffaar, and strive to make the state a republic in which the religious and worldly rights of individuals and peoples are protected, that is better than their submitting to a state that denies their religious and worldly rights, and is keen to destroy them and make them its servants. Yes, if it is possible to make the state an Islamic one where the Muslims are the rulers, that is what should be done, but when that is not possible then the next priority is supporting a type of state where religious and worldly interests are protected. And Allaah knows best.

Tafseer Ibn Sa’di (388).

The scholars of the Standing Committee were asked:

Is it permissible to establish Islamic parties in secular states where the parties are officially subject to man-made laws but their aim is something other than that, and their da’wah is secret?

They replied:

It is prescribed for the Muslims who live in kaafir states to unite and cooperate and work together, whether that is in the name of Islamic parties or Islamic organizations, because that is cooperating in righteousness and piety.

Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz, Shaykh ‘Abd al-Razzaaq ‘Afeefi, Shaykh ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Ghadyaan and Shaykh ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Qa’ood.

Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (23/407, 408)

Sixthly:

We think that you and others should support the Islamic party without joining it, because of what we have stated above of concerns about blind following. You can support the truth that they follow without joining them, then you will have achieved two things: avoiding following and responding to your family’s request. If the law forbids supporting them without joining them, then we think that you should try to convince your family that your joining this party will help the interests of Islam and the Muslims. If they refuse and you cannot conceal your membership in this party from them, and you are living in their house and required to obey them, then we think that you should not join this party. But if you are living separately from them then you will not be sinning if you do not respond to their request, in sha Allaah.

And Allaah knows best.

I lose my temper with smokers – what should I do?


I am a muslim student and i have a bad temper towards smokers. i loose my temper when some one is smoking, i know this is selfish but i can't breath, my eyes swall up and i get dizzy when some 1 smokes. my mother says i should cotrol myself but i always answer its not my fault, but it is i should controll my self. i try but can not, ive read through everythin on this site but can not seem to follow any thing in these situations. is there anythng i can do, or is this a forgiveable mistake?.

Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:

Smoking is one of the things that are forbidden. For more information on the evidence for it being forbidden, please see question no. 1812 and 10922.

Secondly:

If every person were able to live in this world according to his wishes and desires, there would be no misery in this world and it could not be described as hardship; there would be no problems that need to be solved and dealt with. But in reality it is a mixture of sweet and bitter. Each of us is trying to live his life according to his wishes and desires, wishing that others would understand that. But there are many obstacles in the way. This is the reality of this world; no matter how much enjoyment we find in it, it will ultimately end in sorrow and regret.

The feelings of anger that you experience as a reaction towards someone who smokes in front of you are justifiable feelings. Indeed I would go further and say that most wise people would naturally agree with you, because man is by nature repulsed by bad actions, in addition to that fact that you are being physically harmed by this smoke.

But a person must understand how he can express his feelings towards things and he must find the best way to express his feelings in different situations that do not suit him. When a person can overcome this obstacle successfully, he will have taken an important step towards achieving his goal.

Therefore we have to realize that people do not respond to the wishes of the one who issues commands with an attitude of force and compulsion, rather they will move far away from the one who is like that, even though they may believe that what he is saying or demanding is in itself correct and acceptable.  

Simply feeling angry towards these things that you mention is something that is acceptable, but anger on its own does not bring about the desired results in most cases. Controlling your nerves and feelings, and looking for an appropriate way to express them will bring about the desired results in the shortest and easiest way. Have you tried expressing how much the smoking bothers you and the bad effect it has on you, in a calm and polite manner?

Most smokers, if you ask them to stop in a calm manner, explaining the reason, will respond immediately.

Conversely, they will respond to those who advise them in a bad way in an even worse manner, with few exceptions. If a person wants to achieve his goal, he has to be patient, careful and speak well.

You ask “do I have to control myself”? Definitely the answer will be yes, you have to have control yourself with these and with other people. How many things there are in this world that provoke anger.

Controlling yourself and your feelings must be one of your priorities. Our noble and merciful Prophet taught us this. When that man came to him and said, “O Messenger of Allaah, advise me,” the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Do not become angry.” The man repeated his question several times and the Messenger said, “Do not become angry.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6116).

How can a person live if he does not equip himself with patience?

Try to control your nerves by all possible means. Try to select friends who will help you to control yourself and become patient.

Keep away from any friends and colleagues who annoy you and get on your nerves. Try as much as possible to avoid the situations that provoke your anger.

First and last, seek help through du’aa’ and asking Allaah to help you to be patient in all situations.

Do not say that you cannot control your nerves, for feeling that you will fail may lead to it becoming a reality which you give in to and accept.

If you are determined and have a sincere intention, then in sha Allah you will reach your goal. But you should note that you will find that difficult [in the beginning]. But have confidence that you will eventually gain control of yourself and this bitterness and struggle will become sweet on the day when you find it bears fruit.

And Allaah knows best.

Jamaa’at al-Tableegh – pros and cons


What is the ruling on the 40 days and 4 months to the different part of world to call muslim brothers towards duties of islam.

Praise be to Allaah.
“Jamaa’at al-Tableegh” is one of the groups that are working for Islam. Their efforts in calling people to Allaah (da’wah) cannot be denied. But like many other groups they make some mistakes, and some points should be noted concerning them. These points may be summed up as follows, noting that these mistakes may vary within this group, depending on the environment and society in which they find themselves. In societies in which knowledge and scholars are prevalent and the madhhab of Ahl al-Sunnah wa’l-Jamaa’ah is widespread, the mistakes are much less; in other societies these mistakes may be greater. Some of their mistakes are:

1 – Not adopting the ‘aqeedah of Ahl al-Sunnah wa'l-Jamaa'ah. This is clearly seen from the variations in the ‘aqeedah of some of their members and even of some of their leaders.

2 – Their not paying attention to shar’i knowledge.

3 – Their misinterpretation of some Qur’aanic verses in a manner that was not intended by Allaah. For example they interpret the verses on jihad as referring to “going out for da’wah”. The verses which mentioned the word khurooj (going out) etc. are interpreted by them as meaning going out for da’wah.

4 – They make their system of going out for da’wah an act of worship. So they started to misquote the Qur’aan to support their system which specifies certain numbers of days and months. This system, which they think is based on evidence from Qur’aan, is widespread among them in all countries and environments.

5 – They do some things that go against sharee’ah, such as appointing one of them to make du’aa’ for them whilst the group goes out for da’wah, and they think that their success or failure depends on whether or not this man was sincere and his du’aa’ accepted.

6 – Da’eef (weak) and mawdoo’ (fabricated) ahaadeeth are widespread among them, and this is not befitting for those who aim to call people to Allaah.

7 – They do not speak of munkaraat (evil things), thinking that enjoining what is good is sufficient. Hence we find that they do not speak about evils that are widespread among the people, even though the slogan of this ummah – which they continually repeat – is:

“Let there arise out of you a group of people inviting to all that is good (Islam), enjoining Al-Ma‘roof (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do) and forbidding Al-Munkar (polytheism and disbelief and all that Islam has forbidden). And it is they who are the successful”

[Aal ‘Imraan 3:104 – interpretation of the meaning]

The successful are those who enjoin what is good and forbid what is evil, not just those who do only one of the two.

8 – Some of them fall into self-admiration and arrogance, which leads them to look down on others, and even to look down on the scholars and describe them as inactive and sleeping, or to show off. So you find them talking about how they went out and travelled, and they saw such and such, which leads to unfavourable results, as we have mentioned.

9 – They regard going out for da’wah as better than many acts of worship such as jihad and seeking knowledge, even though those things are obligatory duties, or may be obligatory for some people but not others.

10 – Some of them audaciously issue fatwas, and discuss tafseer and hadeeth. That is because they allow each one of them to address the people and explain to them. This leads to them speak audaciously on matters of sharee’ah. So the inevitably speak of the meaning of a ruling, hadeeth or verse when they have not read anything about it, or listened to any of the scholars. And some of them are new Muslims or have only recently come back to Islam.

11- Some of them are negligent with regard to the rights of their children and wives. We have discussed the seriousness of this matter in the answer to question no. 3043.

Hence the scholars do not allow people to go out with them, except for those who want to help them and correct the mistakes that they have fallen into.

We should not keep the people away from them altogether, rather we must try to correct their mistakes and advise them so that their efforts will continue and they will be correct according to the Qur’aan and Sunnah.

There follow the fatwas of some of the scholars concerning Jamaa’at al-Tableegh:

1 – Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz said:

Jamaa’at al-Tableegh do not have proper understanding of the issues of ‘aqeedah, so it is not permissible to go out with them, except for one who has knowledge and understanding of the correct ‘aqeedah of Ahl al-Sunnah wa'l-Jamaa'ah, so that he can guide them and advise them, and cooperate with them in doing good, because they are very active, but they need more knowledge and someone who can guide them of those who have knowledge of Tawheed and the Sunnah. May Allaah bless us all with proper understanding of Islam and make us steadfast in adhering to it.

Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn Baaz, 8/331                    

2 – Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan said:

Going out for the sake of Allaah does not refer to the kind of going out that they mean nowadays. Going out for the sake of Allaah means going out to fight. What they call going out nowadays is a bid’ah (innovation) that was not narrated from the salaf.

Going out to call people to Allaah cannot be limited to a certain number of days, rather one should call people to Allaah according to one's abilities, without limiting that to a group or to forty days or more or less than that.

Similarly the daa’iyah must have knowledge. It is not permissible for a person to call people to Allaah when he is ignorant. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Say (O Muhammad): This is my way; I invite unto Allaah (i.e. to the Oneness of Allaah — Islamic Monotheism) with sure knowledge”

[Yoosuf 12:108]

i.e., with knowledge, because the caller must know that to which he calls people, what is obligatory, mustahabb, haraam and makrooh. He has to know what shirk, sin, kufr, immorality and disobedience are; he has to know the degrees of denouncing evil and how to do it.

The kind of going out that distracts people from seeking knowledge is wrong, because seeking knowledge is an obligation, and it can only be achieved by learning, not by inspiration. This is one of the misguided Sufi myths, because action without knowledge is misguidance, and hoping to acquire knowledge without learning is an illusion.

From Thalaath Mihaadaraat fi’l-‘Ilm wa’l-Da’wah.

And Allaah knows best.

Should he shun his colleague at work who does haraam things?


I have a colleague at work (who is a foreigner) who annoys me a great deal in the way he speaks and insults others, and even his cell phone has music with which he annoys me all the time. When I spoke to him about that, he said: This is none of your business. Now I have cut of all ties with him because of the situation between us. When I enter my office I say salaams in a loud voice and he does not answer me, and when he comes in he does not say salaams. Am I obliged to offer my hand to shake hands with him, knowing that I have seen with my own eyes that he does not care, and previously if someone shakes hands with him when he is sitting down he does not even bother to stand up because he is upset with that man? Does Islam require me to shake hands with him when he has the attitude that I have described? Please note that he does not speak to anyone else at work and I am not the first one to have this problem with him. I hope that you will reply because my conscience is troubling me and I am worried about the hadeeth which says “Deeds are not taken up (to Allaah) because of disputes” or words to that effect.

Praise be to Allaah.
Shunning that may occur between two Muslims because of a dispute is of two types:

1 – Shunning someone because of ego or worldly issues.

2 –Shunning because of the rights of Allaah, because the person being shunned has fallen into innovation (bid’ah) or sin.

The ruling on the first type is that it is not prescribed in Islam, rather it is forbidden.

It was narrated from Anas ibn Maalik that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not hate one another, do not envy one another, do not turn away from one another. Be, O slaves of Allaah, brothers. It is not permissible for a Muslim to forsake his brother for more than three days.”

Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5726) and Muslim (2559).

It is not permissible for this kind of shunning to go on for more than three days because of what it says in this hadeeth.

The ruling on the second type is that it is a kind of shunning that is prescribed in Islam, and there is evidence for that in the Sunnah. This was done by the Sahaabah and by the imams of Islam after them, but it is subject to conditions and guidelines that have been discussed by the scholars.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) shunned the three men who stayed behind from the campaign to Tabook with no excuse. The lengthy hadeeth about their story is narrated in al-Saheehayn from Ka’b ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him), who was one of the three.

Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar (may Allaah have mercy on him) said, discussing the lessons learned from this hadeeth:

(One of the lessons we learn) is not saying salaams to one who commits sin, and that it is permissible to shun him for more than three days. The prohibition on shunning someone for more than three days is to be understood as referring to situations where the reason for shunning is not something prescribed in Islam.

(Another lesson we learn) is that the obligation to return salaams is waived in the case of one who is greeted by the person who is being shunned, because if it were obligatory, Ka’b would not have wondered whether he (the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) moved his lips in returning the greeting.

Fath al-Baari (8/124).

It is clear to us from the context of the hadeeth – which we will not quote here due to its length – that one of the rulings on the kind of shunning that is prescribed in Islam is that is it permissible not to give or return salaams to the one who is sinning – and even more so in the case of one who is introducing innovation – and that there is no time limit on shunning him, rather that may last until he repents or until the one who is shunning him thinks that the purpose has been served – as we shall see below. Hence you can see that there is nothing Islamically wrong with your not shaking hands with that sinner and not greeting him. To make the matter more certain:

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

If a person is known to openly fail to do obligatory duties or to do haraam things, then he deserves to be shunned and should not be greeted with salaams, as a rebuke to him, until he repents.

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (23/252).

But it is essential to note that shunning of sinners and innovators has only been prescribed for important reasons, such as shunning him in order to discipline him so that he will give up his sin and innovation, and to warn others against falling into sin and innovation. If shunning has no effect on the sinner or only makes him more stubborn, then there is no point in shunning him, because of the bad consequences to which that may lead for the one who is shunned, or because it will not serve the purpose for which shunning was prescribed. In that case softening the heart of the sinner will be more effective than shunning him.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

Shunning varies according to how strong or weak, and how few or how numerous the people who are doing the shunning are. The purpose is to rebuke and discipline the person being shunned and to deter the masses from doing likewise.

If the purpose is more likely be to achieved by shunning, and it will weaken and reduce the evil, then it is prescribed, but if the person being shunned and others will not be deterred by that, rather the evil will increase, and the person doing the shunning is weak and the bad consequences will outweigh the good, then shunning is not prescribed, rather softening the hearts of some people is more effective than shunning.

But in some cases shunning is more effective than softening the hearts. Hence the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) sought to soften the hearts of some people and shunned others, and the three who stayed behind (from Tabook) were better than most of those whose hearts were to be softened, because they were leaders who held positions of influence among their tribes. So the interests of Islam dictated that the hearts of the leaders be softened, whereas the three who were shunned were believers and there were many other believers besides them. So shunning them was supporting Islam and was a means of purifying them of their sins. Similarly what is prescribed with regard to the enemy is to fight them sometimes, and to seek truces with them sometimes, and to take the jizyah sometimes, according to circumstances and what is in the ummah’s best interests.

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (28/206).

Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked:

What is the guideline on shunning a sinner who does not commit sin openly in front of people, if there is an interest to be served by shunning him?

He replied:

The guideline is that if shunning a sinner will serve a purpose such as deterring him from his sin, then he should be shunned. But if it will serve no purpose, then shunning him is haraam, because the sinner is still a Muslim, no matter what major sin he may commit, except kufr if that is the case. This is well known. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for a Muslim to shun his fellow-Muslim for more than three (days), each of them turning away if they meet. The better of them is the one who greets the other first.” So you should not shun him. And there are some sinners who, if they are shunned, will increase in sin and hate you as well, and will not accept any advice from you. But if shunning him will be of benefit, such as if he is one of your children or brothers, and he respects you, and shunning him will serve as a rebuke, then in the case you may shun him so that he will be rebuked. Then if you shun him but that does not work as a rebuke, then you should resume contact with him and greet him with salaam, and do not forget to advise him.

Liqaa’aat al-Baab il-Maftoohah (231/question no. 9).

If you think that not greeting him with salaam will have an effect on him and will work as a rebuke for his sins, then carry on shunning him and stop greeting him with salaam or responding if he greets you. But if you think that this is of no benefit, then remember that seeking to soften his heart with gifts, smiling at him and speaking kindly to him may be more effective than shunning him, so do that. If he refuses that from you, and does not respond to you, then there is no sin on you and you are not to blame for that.

In Musnad al-Imam Ahmad (15823) it is narrated that Hishaam ibn ‘Aamir said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “It is not permissible for a Muslim to shun a Muslim for more than three days. If they forsake one another for more than three days then they are deviating from the truth so long as they are forsaking one another. If one of them attempts reconciliation first, that will be an expiation for him.   If he greets him with salaam and he does not respond or return his salaam, then the angels will respond to him and the shaytaan will respond to the other one, and if they die whilst forsaking one another they will never meet in Paradise!”

Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Saheehah, 1246.

We ask Allaah to decree reward for us and you, and to guide us and you to what which He loves and which pleases Him.

And Allaah knows best.